The Big Head and The Little Head. Penis Size
Prepare yourself for some radical truth telling and some serious science. Thing are about to get scary...
I can't think of too many things that are worse for a guy than the thought that maybe the woman you are with isn't satisfied with the size of your penis.
What if you're average or below average and the woman you are with are comparing you to some guy she saw in a video... or, worse, some ex-boyfriend who was a freak of nature?
You hear a lot of people say, "size doesn't matter." And we all want to believe it when we hear it (unless you are very well endowed... and then you DON'T want to believe it).
There's got to be a thousand of those sayings like, "It's not the size of the stick, but magic in the wand," or "Not how big the tool, but the skill to use it," or "Not the size of your oar, but the motion in your ocean," etc., etc.
Well, the cold, hard truth is that while all of those little rhymes are very comforting, most women, if you talk very frankly with them, will admit that size does count for something in the bedroom.
But WHAT it counts for, and exactly the way they feel about it might surprise you. And once you REALLY UNDERSTAND the way women think about "size" I think it will really change the way YOU think about it too.
If you have even the slightest doubt, concern, or insecurity about your own endowment, then I think you MUST read the rest of this Article.
Let's dig in:
1. Men Have Issues
The first thing you need to understand is that while women DO think about penis size, they don't think about it anywhere near as much as we guys do...
And when you think about that fact... that's pretty weird. Most guys think about how they "measure up" about, hmm... a MILLION TIMES more than any woman they are likely to date will ever think about it.
Men have all sorts of crazy hang-ups about their size... to the point where some men are so nervous about it that it affects their ability to have a normal sex life...And what's even CRAZIER, is that these same men usually have a perfectly average sized champ.
But for some reason, this issue occupies a lot of brain space for a lot of guys. They think about it, they obsess about it... as a group; we men buy literally BILLIONS of fake, bogus pills promising to help make it bigger.
And 99% of the time, the women in our lives COULDN'T CARE LESS!
If you take away one piece of information from this article, I hope it's this first one: Sure, size matters, and I'll talk about that too... but nowhere near as much as YOU probably think it does.
The way you think about your body, and how that affects your confidence, can make or break your lover's satisfaction in the sack.
2. A Few Interesting Statistics
According to Masters and Johnson, the researchers who actually went around and collected "measurements" on this subject. The average size is between 5.5 and 6.5 inches.
Another interesting thing that they discovered is that the vast majority of men are, in fact, inside of this average. In other words, chances are extremely high that most women you meet have spent their entire lives having sexual relations with men that were ALL right in this zone.
In still other words, from a woman's point of view, most men are pretty much the same size. There are only a very small number of men that are noticeably larger or smaller than this average.
When you think about it, that's very different from, say, breast sizes, where the “average” is not particularly common... plenty of women are way above or way below average.
But here is the most interesting (and damning) statistic that Masters and Johnson collected: MOST men, who fall into this average zone, when asked their own opinion of their size, said that they thought they were "small" or well "below average."
That's right; most guys who are exactly or near exactly average are insecure about their penis size.
This guys all feeling bad about themselves for absolutely no reason. I hope you aren't doing the same thing...but according that study... you PROBABLY ARE.
3. The Point Of View Problem
I have read, and it may or may not be true (but it sounds right), that part of the problem with guys
is the angle from which they see themselves...That there is an optical illusion when you look down on your own little champ, that makes it look smaller than when you look across at the another guy's little champ in the locker room.
And that starts off the feeling that you are "inadequate."
Now I don't know if that's strictly true, but Ernest Hemingway once mentioned it, so it must be so. (Yes, really).
4. Women's Point Of View
Okay, so if men have this crazy view of the issue... what do women think about size, and how much does it really matter?
The fact is that women DO talk about the size of your little champ. And that is particularly true if it is unusually large. I think it's a cultural thing as much as anything else, those women like to brag about the man they are with.
So if you drive a nice car or if you are an excellent cook, or have very cool fashion sense... or if you are unusually large, they will probably mention it to their friends.
Now, SEXUALLY speaking, how do women feel about this issue?
As you might expect if you really thought about it, different women feel very differently about it. In the same way that some men prefer large breasts and some prefer smaller, and some men prefer women that are taller or shorter, or women who have larger or smaller butts......well, just like that, some women have a thing for really large penis
Now, women in general like the IDEA of a large penis. But it's more of a fantasy than a reality. It's a turn on for a woman to THINK about or even to SEE a really large one...But do they want their boyfriend, husband, or lover to be huge? USUALLY NOT. They almost never want it.
Most women think that being with a guy who is abnormally large is scary and probably painful.
But THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT about this issue for women is that... it's not really that important. Men obsess over their penis size... and women... well, women think it's a nice little extra.
When a woman thinks about what makes a man sexy or what makes him great in bed, a big dick doesn't make their top 5 list.
According to surveys, women are much more turned on by big confidence, big shoulders, big arms, a nice smile, a sense of humor, and a well shaped butt than they are by a big penis.
The last study I saw on purely physical characteristics that are important to women in terms of attraction placed "eyes" in the number one spot and "smile" in number 2, with arms taking the bronze.
Size made the top five... but it was not the little champ... it was the whole guy. Turns out that number 5 is "tall".
Like I said, there are a few women who have a fetish for really large men... and for them it probably matters more... but those women are fairly uncommon.
If you are not completely with me yet on what I'm saying here... if you are still insisting on believing some irrational thing about women not liking you because you are too small, then consider this...
If women need a large penis to be sexually satisfied, then how is that I can give a woman orgasms that can blow the walls down with just one, small finger?
5. When Size Really DOES Matter
So if women don't really care that much about your size, and if most guys really are about the same size anyway, why can't we just say that size doesn't matter?
Glad you asked.
Penis size is incredibly important!
Because of the way it makes YOU feel about yourself.
See, while most women would not rate size in their top 5 reasons for being attracted to a man, virtually ALL women will tell you that CONFIDENCE is not only in their top 5 reasons for finding a man sexy......MOST women will tell you that it's number 1.
So if you believe that you are small...and if that takes away from your sexual confidence with women... then, seriously, your size IS having a very strong effect on how sexually attracted women are to you.
The little head is affecting the big head in a negative way... and the big head is where all the important stuff happens.
Let me say that again:
If you feel insecure about your size, then the fact is that it DOES MATTER, and it is making you MUCH less attractive to women...Not because they give a rat's ass about your package... but because you come across as a less confident man.
As I hope you have guessed by now, the OBVIOUS solution to this problem, if you have any self-doubt whatsoever on the subject is:
GET OVER IT.
If you have the confidence and the great self image to just take the advice above and run with it, I mean, if you really can just flip the switch and just GET OVER IT, it will seriously change your life...It's that powerful.
Because here is another true story for you...
If you know how to blow a woman's mind in the bedroom, you will hear them say, "oh my God, you get so HUGE!"
In fact they'll say it to you ALL THE TIME...even if you are completely average. Crazy, huh?
The reason they say that, is that some wiring in their brain makes them think that if you just rocked their world in ways that no other man ever has before. It must have something special about your little champ.
It's just a psychological gap between what she sees (average, like pretty much every other guy), and the crazy, mind-blowing things that happen to her body.
I guarantee that no matter how big or small you are, you can start to hear those same words.
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